We see things DIFFERENTLY, but how do we understand one another?

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Perspective – it is the very element that makes us see things differently. Often  our perspective is based on our unconscious beliefs. We view them as per the past that we have experienced. It is one of the reasons why we have these beliefs. However, a situation can be interpreted by different people since we all have different perspectives.

When there is a bank robbery, the police gather all the victims first and take all their statements. Then they ask questions about  how they saw the event. They may ask what time the heist happened? How many robbers were there? What were the characteristics of the robbers? Were they able to recognize the voices? Did they hurt anyone? The victims will answer these questions based on their perspective and how the events affected them.

“There are no facts, only interpretations!” – Friedrich Nietzsche

Each situation, event and even conversation can mean something different to all who were affected by the bank robbery. They need every statement to see the whole story which is what is commonly known as the “bird’s eye view”.

Bird’s eye view is the most commonly known term that describes a person’s point of view when taking a step back and seeing the whole picture. It means someone can see a situation in a different perspective. With it a person can assess and visualize all the possibilities the could have been happened. He or she can also understand the different ways that a person can think and see various perspectives in all the versions of the event.

“We don’t see things as they are, we see things as WE are.” – Anais Nin

Our brain is trying to make sense of the world based on our experiences. A person who was bullied when he was a child will most likely have a perspective that everyone will hurt him and make fun of him or that no one would love him. They will also see things like: moving to a different house as dangerous or going out with their family or friends as threatening, since they think that there might be someone who will bully them again or hurt them especially if they are in a new environment. However, a good deed from someone or a simple greeting might be interpreted incorrectly by the person who was bullied before. Due to the reason that he had previous experiences about being tricked. He will immediately activate his defense mechanism and try to act differently and not the way the other person expected. It is how our minds crafted the situation based on our experiences and that is how powerful our minds are.

“One person’s craziness is another person’s reality” – Tim Burton

Deep in our brains is what we call the “Wise Mind” that gives us the interpretation from a different perspective. It really takes time, patience and self discipline to master this and be consistent about it. Some people already have this activated in their brains but they’re not aware about it. If you want to know how to see things differently and know every aspect that needs to be reconsidered, then don’t hesitate to JOIN US TODAY!

GHOST inside your head? This is how you get it out…

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You see things that sometimes aren’t really there. There are also moments where you feel and hear something but others can’t, is that really a ghost? Or is it just all in your head?

Its is normal to react to potentially dangerous situations initially with fear and trepidation.  You get scared whenever your life’s in danger or you are being threatened. It can be alarming to feel that your mind and body suddenly tenses on any kind of threat that might hurt you. This also triggers your brain to being more focused and on guard. When you sense that you’re in danger, you may start to panic. Your mind and body starts to focus on just one thing, to escape, to get to a safe place, to get out from where you are right now.

The more you struggle, the worst it gets, and the more your brain thinks wildly and eventually goes on haywire!

There are people who easily get scared,who are were traumatized from childhood experiences. However, there are also people who cannot control their bodies when anxiety starts to kick in. Your main focus is to make sure you are safe, then  the anxiety will start to fade and will be can return to normal function.

Below are some episodes that would help you determine if you have an anxiety disorder (a level of anxiety that is unstable and can no longer be controlled):

  • You are always tense, on edge and worried making you feel uneasy and uncomfortable in challenging situations.
  • You always believe that something bad will happen. It’s just your fear that kicks in when you start to hallucinate and making that which you fear inside your head seem real. Which causes you to panic!
  • You feel that a catastrophe might happen anytime and danger seem to be lurking in every corner. It’s one of the highest levels of anxiety attack, where you can no longer control yourself to the point that you can’t move or to even go to new places.

There are many ways on how you can control your anxiety. One of them is making sure that you are getting enough sleep and enough time for relaxation. This will surely take your mind off of your fear. You can read about the different types of anxiety attack and know the proper treatment and self-help by REPROGRAMMING YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS TODAY!

Having doubts, second thoughts and negative reflexes….How to control them?

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Do you know how your brain actually works? We know that there are billions of neurons that deliver different messages to different parts of our body. Science says that we are only using 5% of our brain and who knows what we could achieve by accessing more than that. However, although our brain is so powerful, we may not  know who’s really controlling it. Are we controlling our brain? Or is it our brain which controls us?

“The human brain has 100 billion neurons, each neuron is connected to 10 thousand other neurons. Sitting on your shoulders is the most complicated object in the known universe”. – Michio Kaku

Our brain can play tricks on us, it can even make us see things differently. Examples are the optical illusions which play tricks on our brains, making us think otherwise. The most crucial part of our brain is when we doubt, have second thoughts or when we are having negative reflexes. Ninety percent of the time, as we have second thoughts or doubts, our body becomes paralyzed for a couple of seconds. This is because our brain does not know what decision to make between the options that were given.

In addition, good or bad options  have their own consequences as well. This also happens when the options are all equal. Our body freezes for a few seconds while our mind is still in the process of choosing what the best option is. However, our mind has a way of adjusting. It may either come up with the choice immediately or might still need to take some time to find the answers. There’s an element of fear in making that big decision. That fear makes it so hard for us to make our stand.We may just want to avoid our thinking  all together to deal with the fear.  

“So how do we exactly overcome doubts, second thoughts and negative reflexes that are results to bad decisions and wrong actions?”

Yes, there are ways on how to overcome them, here are a few: Imagine for about a hundred years from now, who’s going to care? Just look at the positive side of life and learn from your mistakes and put it down to experience. Most of all, if you don’t try, you will never know! Dr. Sundardas Annamalay has uncovered many secrets on overcoming doubts, second thoughts and negative reflexes. We can TELL YOU MORE!

 

Don’t Give Up Too Soon… Revitalize Your Life

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Sometimes we think that we want to go back to being a child. This is where we did not have problems with bills, work, earning money, going to go through our everyday lives, gossip and many other issues. Being an adult does have its positive sides and challenges as well. The negative side of being an adult is having responsibilities to be a reliable provider for your family. You make sure that everything is perfect for them and have a good relationship with your friends at work. While the positive side of being an adult, on the other hand is, you can make your own decisions in life. You can go anywhere you want and you have the choice to either be successful or not.

“It is the way you perceive things, not how you notice the roadblocks.”

There are ways on how you can be successful and be able to achieve that success. You have to realize that as a human being you have limitations. However, those limitations are also the very reason why we should find a way to overcome them. We have to admit, that there are problems and obstacles that are too much for us to tackle head on. That’s why we have to find a way to get around it but still get the same results. The more problems we face, the stronger we get and more confident we become in life.

“Life does not always give us what we want, most of the time we have to work really hard and even sacrifice something we love to achieve our goals!”

Giving up on a problem is the easiest thing to do, however, if you give up right in the middle of it, then the feeling of regret and disappointment will kick in. You can quit anytime, that is your privilege, and it’s always an option. Still if you get used to the feeling of quitting every time you encounter a problem then you are at the losing end of the stick. Remember, “Quitters never win!”

There are a lot of ways on how you can get over even the deepest problems. You just have to know how to press the reset button when everything goes haywire. Start HERE to get revitalized and stress relief! The TIME is NOW!